BIPOC Utopias - Negotiation & Boundary Setting

This is a monthly separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks.
For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on how to encourage and inspire more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy, capitalism, classism and racism. In an effort to change the narrative, Caritia wishes to offer a monthly gathering for BIPOC to talk, learn about a topic or practice, and support one another through a community actively built together, with the aspiration to gather in person once a year.
Caritia’s intention is to create a guided, active space for learning and coming together. This format has the potential to morph and change as the group sees fit.
This month’s topic
This month, we will offer space to discuss negotiation and boundaries. What is challenging for you in upholding your boundaries? What information do you feel is m? And how does this connect for you in a kink as well as broader context?